Make sure she's wet
When you're getting ready to place your manhood inside her, make sure she's lubricated. The last thing you want to do is hurt her in a bad way. Gently rub your penis along her vagina and feel around to make sure she's wet before you place yourself inside her.
Don't create a comfortable atmosphere
Forget about candlelight, incense and seductive music, otherwise all you'll be doing is hyping up an experience that may end up leaving her dissatisfied. The whole point of quickie sex is spontaneity so it's okay if you're in the living room, the TV is on and your pants are down to your ankles. That's the beauty of spontaneous, passionate, quickie sex.
Make noise
Let her know you're excited and that it's not just about release -- even if it is. Moaning and groaning will flatter her and demonstrate that you're excited about what you're experiencing. Now I'm not suggesting that you start screaming like a girl, but a little enthusiasm never hurt anyone.
Put her on top
Besides saying something clever like, "I want you on top because I want to watch your body move and caress your breasts," placing her in the dominant position can accomplish a couple of things. First, her being on top will likely increase her chances of reaching orgasm. Second, she won't feel like she's being taken over (although some women really enjoy that).
Don't ignore her
You don't have to "cuddle" for several hours, but don't act like she doesn't exist either. If you were watching TV, have her sit with you and put your arm around her. If she was in the middle of cooking dinner, go into the kitchen after a few minutes and tell her you love her (granted you do) and give her a kiss. The point is, don't make her feel like what just occurred had nothing to do with her and was all about you. Many women feel their most vulnerable after sex, keep that in mind.
Don't make it a habit
While quick, unadulterated sex is great on occasion, if you constantly barrage her with five-minute sessions, she will get bored, as will you. So engage in quickie sex on occasion, but don't make it the norm.
it's about both of you
Although five minutes usually isn't enough time for many women to reach orgasm, an occasional quick session can still be equally pleasurable for her so long as you're not completely insensitive toward her.
And remember, so long as you keep a woman's mind excited, her body will follow. Now have fun and make it quick.
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